Here's the part where I get shitty and have a rant.
I ran into an old friend Sal today.
We have been friends since we were 6 years old.
She told me she was going to call me tonight (?!)
I haven't talked to her in quite a while, but we are still very good friends.
SOMEONE - a person that I called a friend, who was with me when I was in labour with Z17 added Sal to her friends list on facebook - then immediately sent her a "concerned" message to ask if I was 'O.K. she had heard I wasn't well'.
Yeah right.
No she wasn't being a concerned person I lost contact with - it was deliberate on my part.
This is the same girl that aborted her baby because she thought it might be ugly, she didn't think the father was as attractive as he could be.....shallow?
The same girl that would run me down to anyone that would listen, but be nice to my face (it appeared).
I should have known - she was running down all of her other so called friends to me at the same time.
She would throw in subtle criticisms and make me feel bad.
When Z17 was born I didn't know many people, and didn't drive, so relied on people turning up when they said they were going to - she would let me down....often.
She also gave Z17 CREAM on a beater to lick when he was only 3 months old - I could have slapped her. And guess what, to this day he won't eat cream.
I was VERY particular about him being introduced to foods at the appropriate age.
Hell why not give the baby egg and a few weet bix????
She has a son 9 months older than Small Man and constantly compared them - and he was a full on little shit - to the point where I didn't like his influence on SM.
And she couldn't see it.
No, I don't think my kids are perfect but this one was a shocker.
There is a lot, lot more but I'll only get angry typing it out (bitching and telling stories about me to two ladies that work for me is just a start).
I haven't seen her for many years, at least 8.
I don't wish to.
I made a decision some time ago to cut loose anyone that makes me feel bad.
She tends to bail up anyone that knows me and either puts me down, or tries to get information out of them about me.
I'm sick of it.
This is the last straw, she has added two of my other friends to her list - wtff??
I have set all of my stuff on facebook to private.
Hopefully she can't view my photos etc but I may even take the photos off.
I NEVER refer to my blog on facebook.....blog? What's a blog!
If she keeps annoying Sal I'll shut my facebook page down.
I just feel so...trespassed or something!!
I am no longer angry about anything she has said or done, I wish her well, I just want her OUT OF MY LIFE!
Grrrr!
G
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11 comments:
Yep, she sounds like she needs a life.
My ex- hub ran into my equivalent of that person, AND told her where I live!!!!
Do what needs to be done, G.
Thanks for your support, love to you. xx♥
Natalie ~ It just makes me wonder what makes these people tick??? If she'd put half the effort into being a decent friend in the first place....
God I hope your equivalent doesn't come calling.....
This one ran into Big A a few years ago - she said "I should give Gina a call".
Big A replied "Uh I don't really think that's a good idea" - well done Big A!!
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Ahh poison people, you're right that the best thing is not to have anything to do with them. They suck the life out of you.
Don't get rid of your site, just make everything private, don't let her change any part of you, (except making things private of course :)
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Erck!
Can't stand those sort of people, just got rid of one out of my life thank goodness!
She sounds like a stalker type. Not what you need in your life at all.
P.S. My son was eating weet-bix at 3 months and had been since he was 6 weeks old. He was hungry, hungry, hungry and really didn't like the bland baby cereals available. So weet-bix it was, and soon after it was mashed versions of whatever we were eating. Luckily he had no allergies of any kind.
Sounds like she's jealous of you! I would definitely just cut her out of your life!
I picture you with a broom, sweeping vigorously in a long hallway, moving ever so slowly toward the door.
Tania ~ Energy vampires I think they're called :) I have made my site as private as possible, and will see what happens...
Jayne ~ I hope yours doesn't do a re-appearing act too :)
Evil Twins Wife ~ I think so. I just don't like her involving my other friends in her pathetic games :)
Snowbrush ~ Thank you :) I hope it works. I must not have swept thoroughly enough the first time around :)
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River ~ Yes, she is a weirdo for sure.
The Big A is lactose intolerant, and me with my stomach concerns - I stuck with the 'not giving them wheat, cream, eggs, tomato etc' thing until they were 12 months old.
The probably would have been fine with it - I just wanted to be sure.
Also the friend I mentioned - Sal - her son has coeliac disease from birth and the doctors didn't know what was wrong with him - she was giving him weet bix to settle his stomach after he'd been vomiting - which was the worst thing for him (she didn't know).
He he - I was given cows milk from 8 weeks of age....('nuf said on my stoamch issues!). Formula was a rarer thing back then.
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This happened to me once... and some people the more you try to be rid of them, the more they stick! Eventually i decided to forgive her (in my heart) and pretended she was invisible... and eventually she became so (Thank God!) ...Touch wOOd! x
Nollyposh ~ Hopefully she will find something better to do...SOON!
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