Oh I'm furious.
It was revealed to me that 'the Almighty' was giving her opinion on Small Man to anyone that would listen.
She told someone that "There is nothing wrong with 'Small Man' - he sits up until 3am playing online games in his bedroom and eating junk food - that's his problem"
Ummm...HELLO?
How the hell would she know to start with? Was she driving past at 3am every morning and checking?
The computers are not even in the boys bedrooms.
If she wanted to slag ME off to anyone that would listen that was one thing - but to discuss my child and his health with other people is a whole other thing altogether.
And to then sit here and ask me how he is, actually her parting comment when we finally got rid of her was "Plleeeaase keep in touch and let me know how he is going, I really DO care, I mean that".
The people she discussed this with couldn't believe what she was saying, and have finally admitted it to me.
I realise there's nothing I can do about it.
But I'm very, very angry and disgusted that even she could stoop that low.
G
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**Added at 1.45pm***
Now that i have calmed down slightly I should explain.
The Almighty was my previous manager from work.
In the last three years she has done everything possible to bring me down, discredit me, make me look stupid, ruin my business, turn my team against me, lie, harass, bully.....
At first I thought maybe I was just paranoid, but as time passed I ended up with proof.
The predicament for me was that I am not technically an employee of the company we work for (neither is she). So we are not covered by the same harassment laws as an employee would be.
She was also very careful not to put anything in writing eg email.
I had tried to let go of my own anger and bitterness after she left - I was trying not to let it keep affecting me, because that way she wins.
This however was way, way below the belt.
Like I said attack me, say what you want about me but don't bring my children into your sick, nasty, vindictive little world.
At this point I feel her conduct needs investigating, as my story is just the tip of the iceberg.
Not sure how to make that happen.
12 comments:
Ahhh, further proof of the shitiness of her then.
Stupid horrible lady...dont give her any more energy of yours G, you need it for yourself!
Michelle ~ I wouldn't like her karma.
I'm trying not to - trying my best but when it's about Small Man....grrrrr.....
G
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You are a lioness protecting one of your cubs. You are right to be ferocious.
I think the term "lady" seems to be misused in context with this person.
I am sorry, G., sounds bloody awful.You need it like a hole in the head.
Sending you a big bear hug.xx
Gina I love you and understand but let it go- you are giving this bitch far too much power- dont waste anymore of your wonderful energy on her !
Some people are just born to be bitches. Ignore her as much as you can.
Natalie ~ you have hit the nail on the head, on all counts. To start on my kids is just unacceptable no matter who it is. The fact that it was her makes it a million times worse. Spreading her poison to others I work with.
Lisa ~ Thank you. But I am very angry at the moment - I will be over it soon I'm sure - but things seem to keep coming up - maybe I need to know it all before I can move on - and this was another piece of it. People I work with are feeling the need to tell me the truth about this for their own consciences I suppose (simply for listening to her bullshit) - they don't realise how angry it makes me because I can hold my cool for a while.
River ~ Thanks, I'm trying. It is easier now that she's moved away, but I'm still getting 'confessions' from people I work with, so it makes it hard to ignore when things keep coming up.
G
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Ahhh...
I don't have advice,
But I do know what it's like to have someone do this to one of your children.
I got legal advice and it worked.
good luck
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Tania ~ Thank you. Actually my main feeling at the moment is how sorry I feel for this womans own children. Poor things ending up with a mother like that.
A time will come when she will have to face the truth.
G
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G, think of her as an emotional, soul destroying vampire, sucking everything that is good out of you.
Plus she must be the most miserable sad sack of shyte to be trying to make you feel how she feels.
Banish her from your headspace and your life, don't give the miserable creature the time or the oxygen to breathe in your life anymore.
Jayne ~ That's a good way of looking at it actually, your description of her is spot on :)
I am just about over it - another brick in the cruel, nasty, deceptive wall she built for me.
G
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Jayne coined the term right. Emotional vampire.
Man, I would be raging too.
Could you confront her? With a witness so she can't twist what goes down.
Widdle Shamrock ~ She has actually moved to another state (lucky for me). I am thinking that if I contact her over it she will then know she has gotten to me, which has been her goal from the start.
Sick piece of work she is.
G
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