But anyway

I shall endeavour to keep my head up and not allow him to ruin another christmas/party/whatever.

We have to go to their house for xmas eve where sparks will no doubt fly when he starts on with his 'will' bullshit with his sister.
I might have to take her side.........ha ha ha ha!

If he is ok to me I'll be civil, because I am better than that. If he wants to keep ignoring me fine....I can do ignoring.
I have no idea WHAT Mum was thinking when she got with him, I really don't.

I may have actually voiced this opinion in the past.

I mean, the guy stole his 'best mates' wife (money orientated if you ask me).
Told her once he had her moved in that neither my brother or I were EVER to live under his roof (fuck you buddy I was only 16).
Then a few years later proceeded to move his own son into their house for a few years....n ot my SB's fault and I don't hold it against him at all.

This is just the start/tip of the iceberg of the shit he's pulled over the years.

He's one of these that you ask how he is and he gets all "Ooooh (woe is me) still above ground" or "So - so" and you feel like slapping the shit out of him - why the fuck can't he just say "Good" for once or "Well, thanks".........

He is paranoid as hell and thinks everyone is 'out to get him' as far as rip him off/break into his house/crack onto his wife (oh no wait, isn't it him that does that???), steal Mums underwear off the line (I know, you'd have to be a freak to come up with this shit), look through their drawers if they're not home - no really, I mean it.

He buys stuff and then never uses it.
It gets wrapped all in plastic and shit and preserved, or it sits there and if anyone even dare breathe on it he goes off his nut - say like his shitty stereo speakers.

Once we didn't go around there for nearly 12 months because he carried on so much every time one of the boys moved near his stupid speakers.

Then there was the episode with Small Man, the weekend I went away for work. He got the boy up at his shack and gave him a massive nasty lecture on how 'if he keeps going the way he is he won't live until he's 20' and that 'him being at home and being overweight and not going to school was affecting his parents marriage' and that 'he should eat what everyone else eats it's not fair that his mother has to make different food for him' and so on.
I was LIVID.
I am still LIVID - there are many things I can try and forgive, this is NOT one of them.

The irony? My niece (5) is also a very fussy eater.
She has been staying with Mum and SF A LOT - as I have posted before.
They came for Big A's birthday the other night - and guess what???
Mum had to bring chicken nuggets to cook for her.............but suddenly it's ok, as long as it's not Small Man.

He is also sexist, racist and a raging hypocrite.......

I have tolerated him for Mum's sake for nearly 20 years.

I'm done.
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Add to the week (Sunday) my catering for 70 people for our xmas party - it went off without a hitch - what a great day :)
8kg coleslaw, 8kg potato salad, 6kg hamburgers (all handmade, even the salad dressings), 6kg sausages, 6kg rump steak, 8 loaves of bread, 25 lolly bags, 40 ripple cakes, 40 fruit salads......96 cans of cordial......

We took out all of the awards again this year - I got district manager of the year, then one of my guys took out top team leader of the year, and my other guy got runner up :)

More tomorrow,

G
xx